Recently, mom signed, complained, felt rather depressed ..all for my sister's disordered marriage. My sister is a capricious but kind-hearted girl with the character that hard to be pleased. Although married, she yet remained the same as before, like a child, careful of fun and pure play. She has been devoted to her daughter when she was pregnant and gave birth to her, however, sister can't be tolerant of the still, tasteless and mediocre life of being a housewife. She figured out the way to make money, to fulfill her capability , eager to contribute to the family. But she has gone too far. Mom can't help but lament over the present predicament of sister's marriage. It seemed a crisis that likely to result in some bitter fruits. Taking the Yannny into consideration, if the marriage clashed or disillusioned , what kind of impact will be exerted upon her innocent soul. Yan is only one-year old, I can't imagine what kind of person she will become if in a chattered, quarrelsome or unharmonious family. I am extremely worried. I love yan ,love every family memebers, but I don't know how to compromise the probable damage to them. I don't know how to better settle their problems. How to make them much happier? sister's marriage is finished in a haste and thoughtless manner, neither of them think further of how to construct a family together , how to join hands to creat a blissful family the rest of life. Marriage is not simply a certificate,not the easy vows, but the convictions of loving each other with sense of responsibility ,with the confidence in mutual understanding, with the faith entrusted on each other.Marriage is not an episode in one's life,after a short pause, every married man could relaunch another music. It's really really worth both parties' wholehearted sacrifice of something without condition. I don't know. Now, I could do nothing but wish sister and brother-in-law could withstand this mental trial, the crucial moments. God knows how I am afraid their problems will adversely affect Yan's growth, I am unwilling to witness Yan's crystal world spoiled so early....God bless them!!!